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Incognito allows you to keep an active profile on OkCupid while being 100% hidden to anyone on the site who you have not already messaged or liked.
Not only will you not appear in Questions, Discover, etc. to anyone you haven't liked/messaged, if anyone tries to visit your profile who you haven't liked/messaged, they'll get a note that your profile does not exist.
Please note that Incognito is a separate subscription from Basic or Premium, and does not include the features of either.
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Having some trouble with Incognito? We can help make sure you're flying under the radar.
Are you subscribed?
Incognito is a paid subscription that isn't included with OkCupid Basic or Premium. If you'd like to find out more about Incognito's features, you can view it on the site here.
Is Incognito turned on?
You can make sure Incognito is turned on under the 'Profile' tab when using the OkCupid app, on your main profile page when using the mobile website, and under your profile menu on the desktop website.
Frequently Asked Questions
I'm still seeing likes and messages after I've subscribed to Incognito.
Any likes or messages you see from other members happened before your account was subscribed to Incognito. Also note that your profile will instantly be available for new likes/messages if you turn off Incognito at any time.
How can I remove any old likes or messages I received before I had Incognito?
If you come across a member that liked your profile when Incognito was turned off, you can block them. Tap on their profile, then the three dots at the top, then 'Block'. You can find out more about blocking/hiding other members here.
How do I know for sure that Incognito is working?
You'll know Incognito is working because you won't receive any 'live' like alerts or messages from other members. Your profile is completely hidden unless you like or message someone first.
I already bought a paid subscription, why am I not seeing Incognito?
OkCupid Basic/Premium and Incognito Mode are separate subscriptions, and have never been combined. If you purchase one, you do not get access to the features for the other.
If I've already messaged someone that hasn't liked me back yet, can I reverse my message and block them?
Nope! If you want to block someone that you've already messaged, you'll have to wait for them to like you back first. Once you message someone, you won't see their profile around the site until you mutually match. Once they like you back, if you no longer like them, you can unmatch/block them.
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In recent months, some of my reporting on CTech has been surrounding the popular dating app OkCupid and what insights it can tell us about society. In March, I wrote about how people were 13% more likely to get a match if they signaled their vaccination status, and the following month I highlighted how 77% of Israelis express ‘concerns for the fate of the planet' due to climate change.
Well, two months have gone by and an entirely new government has formed in the Knesset. Since OkCupid offers its users up to 5,000 questions that can be answered to determine the responses to some of these issues, and given my past interest in such data, I wanted a catch my own date with the company to find out more.
'We can add questions within seconds,' said Michael Kaye, the company's Global Communications & Public Relations Manager. I caught up with him earlier this month to discuss two major things happening: the return of Tel Aviv Pride and the change of the Israeli government – a welcomed rotation after years of political and policy stalemate. 'This weekend, when we were still getting the news alerts about Benjamin Netanyahu, we immediately added questions about how Israelis feel about the new government and how long they think the new government will last.'
One of the most striking aspects of OkCupid is how it differentiates itself from other dating apps. As well as conventional swipe and messaging services, the app also asks its users dozens of questions about a myriad of subjects helping determine possible matches among users. I once downloaded the app and was asked if I ate meat, and then suddenly challenged on my views about Trump's border wall. 'These questions are all about dating, relationships, and sex, but also politics, healthcare, climate change, gun control, marriage equality, and racial equality,' he told me.
Israel is a smaller country than most, and so we had to wait a few weeks for the data into Israeli opinion on the new government. Michael kindly followed up with me a few days after our call via email and provided the results from 1.5 million questions answered by Israeli users since Naftali Bennett became the country's new prime minister.
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Free dating sites city shenandoah louisiana. How do you feel about the new Israeli government?
Finally! (51%)
Not sure (40%)
It's a disaster (10%)
Do you think the new Israeli government will last?
I have no idea(52%)
Yes (25%)
No (23%)
Nope! If you want to block someone that you've already messaged, you'll have to wait for them to like you back first. Once you message someone, you won't see their profile around the site until you mutually match. Once they like you back, if you no longer like them, you can unmatch/block them.
If you still need help, you can email a friendly human.
In recent months, some of my reporting on CTech has been surrounding the popular dating app OkCupid and what insights it can tell us about society. In March, I wrote about how people were 13% more likely to get a match if they signaled their vaccination status, and the following month I highlighted how 77% of Israelis express ‘concerns for the fate of the planet' due to climate change.
Well, two months have gone by and an entirely new government has formed in the Knesset. Since OkCupid offers its users up to 5,000 questions that can be answered to determine the responses to some of these issues, and given my past interest in such data, I wanted a catch my own date with the company to find out more.
'We can add questions within seconds,' said Michael Kaye, the company's Global Communications & Public Relations Manager. I caught up with him earlier this month to discuss two major things happening: the return of Tel Aviv Pride and the change of the Israeli government – a welcomed rotation after years of political and policy stalemate. 'This weekend, when we were still getting the news alerts about Benjamin Netanyahu, we immediately added questions about how Israelis feel about the new government and how long they think the new government will last.'
One of the most striking aspects of OkCupid is how it differentiates itself from other dating apps. As well as conventional swipe and messaging services, the app also asks its users dozens of questions about a myriad of subjects helping determine possible matches among users. I once downloaded the app and was asked if I ate meat, and then suddenly challenged on my views about Trump's border wall. 'These questions are all about dating, relationships, and sex, but also politics, healthcare, climate change, gun control, marriage equality, and racial equality,' he told me.
Israel is a smaller country than most, and so we had to wait a few weeks for the data into Israeli opinion on the new government. Michael kindly followed up with me a few days after our call via email and provided the results from 1.5 million questions answered by Israeli users since Naftali Bennett became the country's new prime minister.
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Free dating sites city shenandoah louisiana. How do you feel about the new Israeli government?
Finally! (51%)
Not sure (40%)
It's a disaster (10%)
Do you think the new Israeli government will last?
I have no idea(52%)
Yes (25%)
No (23%)
According to the data collected by OkCupid, more than half of single Israelis have no idea how successful the Bennett administration will be, only feeling relief that it represents a definitive government after all these years. Only 10% of Israelis think it will be a flat-out disaster, with roughly an equal share believing it will – or won't – last at all.
If you think that politics is not a sexy thing to discuss on a dating site that people use to find love, then you might be pleasantly – or drearily – surprised. As I wrote in March: 'In 2019, 53% of OkCupid users said they couldn't date someone with the opposite political opinion – with that number jumping up to nearly 70% in 2021. In total, 32% of OkCupid would rather share the same political beliefs with their partners than have good sex.'
'We know this is a hot topic for daters,' Michael told me when I mentioned the relationship between dating and politics. 'In Israel, we've already seen 380,000 users say they enjoy discussing politics.' In the email follow-up, he provided the data that showed almost 50,000 OkCupid daters in Israel have said they like to discuss politics with their partners in a relationship. Of those, 63% prefer that their date shares their political views.
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So, Israelis like fighting on dates – what else is new? Well, in an announcement that would coincide with Pride Month, Michael told me that OkCupid was adding 19 identities – up from 41 – to help make the platform be more inclusive for those in the LGBTQ+ community who may not fit into traditional labels. These include anything from gender identities to sexual preferences, positions, and body shapes.
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Speed dating under 30 in winter springs florida. 'Israel has always been supportive of our LGBTQ+ efforts,' Michael affirmed. 'Tel Aviv, but Israel as a whole, is a very accepting and inclusive country, which is why in all the marketing campaigns we've ever launched in Israel, there's always a nod to the community or some level of inclusive messaging.' OkCupid appeared on a float at the Tel Aviv Pride March this year, marking the first time the dating app ventured outside of the U.S for such an occasion.
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I was first exposed to the amount of data that something like OkCupid could provide when I was still in art school and living in New York. In 2014, I read 'Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One's Looking)' written by its co-founder Christian Rudder. The book took what was at the time 10 years of data to show us what users thought about love, sex, race, and identity. Free dating sites city royal palm beach florida. Today, in a world engulfed with social chaos and politicized vaccinations, it might be time for Rudder to gift us with an update.
'Our political questions have more than 100 million responses,' Michael concluded. 'There have been more than 550 million responses to our questions in general in 2020 alone, and over 8.5 billion since we launched the app.'
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